Iraq: Should we be there?

There probably hasnt been a single day since March 2003, that any of us hasnt been able to turn on the TV and on some channel, be able to find someone protesting the war in Iraq. Certain names or words come to mind whenever I think of that.

Cindy Sheehan, 4000 servicemembers killed, WMD's, etc. etc.

Im sure most of you would think of the same and probably more. As Ive mentioned in previous blogs, there probably isnt a single person in this nation that doesnt know somebody or know OF somebody that currently serves or has served in the military. Chances are that that person served in Iraq and/or Afghanistan.

Iraq has become a very controversial subject when it comes to matters of politics. Most people, when they talk about it are completely convinced that we either should or should not be there, Depending on what your values are, what you've experienced in your life and how you see the world. Im probably one of the biggest advocates FOR free speech. I have been constantly reminded that my tongue will get me into trouble someday. I can tell you it already has. My tongue has been my greatest weakness. But it has also been my greatest strength.

I have no problem with voicing my opinion. I believe that "if you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything". The fact that I voice my opinion, specifically when I think something is f*cked up, kept me from being promoted to Staff Sergeant for a year while I was in the Army. But it DIDNT keep me from being one of the youngest Staff Sergeants in the 101st Airborne Division. I definitely moved up in rank very quickly during the time I was in the Army. I was a Sergeant at the age of 19 and a Staff Sergeant shortly after my 22nd birthday. (Remember I got held back for a year) When I was told by my platoon sergeant that he had decided not to send me to the "E-6 Board" because I needed to learn how to control what I said, it completely caught me off guard even though I should have expected it. Throughout the whole time I was in the Army, Ive had different levels of leadership tell me that my mouth was gonna come back and bite me in the ass. Sure enough it did. I didnt resent my platoon sergeant. Instead, my already high view of him only raised even more. Him and I were very good friends before he became my platoon sergeant and at work, we still maintained the professionalism needed to accomplish the mission. So when he told me that I would not be going before the board for promotion, I didnt take it personally. I decided that it was time for me to reflect on why I had this road block in front of me. Although Ive definitely learned to pick and choose my battles now, I still have that drive in me to stand up when things are going in the wrong direction. This time is no different. And THAT is why Im writing this blog.

I completely understand the pain that a parent,sibling, spouse or grandparent must feel when their loved one is lost in battle. It is a demoralizing feeling that the first human instinct is to find someone to blame. The problem with the war in Iraq is that for some people, the person (or persons) to blame may at times be unclear. Alot of people blame President Bush. Their defending argument is that we went in there for oil. That because the Bush family has a history in the petroleum business, it is a definite fact that they went in there to seek out the many oil reserves that Iraq contains. Although this argument sounds almost convincing, I believe that it is simply not true. President Bush may not have been as eloquent or as well spoken as President Obama, but he certainly is no fool. I had the honor to meet President Bush two years ago and I can tell you personally that he is intelligent as he is humorous. Another reason why Im convinced that the war in Iraq was not motivated by interests in oil is because with the constant exposure that the media provides, any possible hint of such a thing would have been exposed like the whole Monica Lewinsky thing. And that was because the media LIKED President Clinton. Imagine how they would been with President Bush, someone who they clearly could not stand.

Another "reason" that people usually come up with for our involvement in Iraq is WMD's. Well...That one I'll leave alone. I wholeheartedly believe that in time, people will see that Bush wasnt completely full of shit. Understand that a hell of a lot more happens over there than what the media will show and a hell of alot more happens over there that civilians back home wouldnt be able to understand or accept.

The point of this blog posting is to explain a different side to the war in Iraq. Currently, one of the biggest (if not THE biggest) debates going on in politics is the possibility of a nationalized healthcare program made available to everyone in the United States. President Obama (whom I have not hidden the fact that Im not his biggest fan) is running around from townhall meeting to townhall meeting, touting how we have a "moral obligation" to provide for those less fortunate than we are. I COMPLETELY AGREE!!! But not at the expense of those that cannot afford it. Americans are generally a giving society. Although you wouldnt see this characteristic too often if you were to go to New York City. (Ironically one of the most liberal cities in the US and one of the biggest supporting communities for a nationalized healthcare program...Go Figure!!)

My point with the whole "moral obligation" thing is....If President Obama is so concerned about caring for those less fortunate than ourselves, then where was this compassion, better yet, where IS this compassion in regards to the Iraqi people? If anything, the Iraqis are FAR less fortunate than any American currently living within our borders. So if he is so concerned about the welfare of those less fortunate than ourselves, then why isnt he choosing to continue the fight in Iraq to bring Democracy there? Why isnt he choosing to stay there until "Mission Complete"? To stabilize the country. To finish bringing water to small towns that have never had running water. To establish security in a country that has been at war longer than most of us have been alive.

I will end this blog regarding our dilemma of whether or not we should stay in Iraq or not, with a few questions....

If the French wouldnt have intervened in the war between the American Colonies and the British, wouldnt we still be under British rule? Dont we have the same "moral obligation" to provide for those less fortunate than ourselves in another country as we do for the people of our own country? Or does the term moral only apply to situations that benefit us politically?

If the North had chosen not to intervene in the cessation of the South from the American Union, wouldnt blacks still be considered slaves?

I believe that the decision for the United States to intervene in Iraq to get rid of Saddam Hussein, was a correct decision. I spent two years over there and would spend another two if my presence there ensured that the Iraqi people could look forward to the same peace and security that we Americans so easily take for granted.

4th of July - Fireworks Day or Michael Jackson Day?

Today, Saturday, July 4, 2009. Ive got little Victor with me and we've spent much of the day just hanging around the house watching movies, playing video games and making ice cream. I bought a new ice cream maker last week and I promised him we would make some this weekend. We decided that our first batch would be coconut ice cream. He loves coconut, as do I.


While we were gathering and mixing the ingredients together, I asked him to put on the news. I usually like to watch FOX because I feel that they're the only news station that will actually report in a bipartisan manner. Unfortunately at that moment, it wasn't time for the news and instead they were showing COPS. I'm not a big fan of reality TV, especially those that are full of drama and minorities (mind you, I'm Hispanic) playing up the stereotype of constantly being involved in crime, drugs or some sort of domestic dispute. So I put on CNN. They definitely had the news on but not what I was expecting. Today, being Independence Day, or as society commonly calls it, 4th of July, I expected to see a special documenting the history of our country. Something that might remind us of the sacrifices made by our countrymen so that we could be free. So that we, could call ourselves a nation. Instead, CNN is doing a special on Michael Jackson.


What?


Don't get me wrong...I'm a BIG fan of Michael Jackson. I love every song he has ever put out. I think he is solely responsible for the way music has evolved into what it is today and I think that he is (or was) at a level all by himself when it came to dancing. Nobody can or probably ever will be able to dance the way he did. I remember as a kid, and admittedly as an adult, I would try to imitate some of his dance moves. Specifically, the moonwalk. I believe most of us have. I got pretty good at it but in my opinion, never as good as Michael. I don't think anybody could. So its not that I'm against a special on Michael Jackson. I do believe that his memory and talents should be "immortalized". But not today. Not on our nation's 233rd Birthday.


I thought CNN did great on D-Day. On June 6, 2009, CNN was live in Normandy, France, documenting all of the events that were taking place in celebration of the 65th anniversary of the D-Day landings. They showed the speech given by President Obama. They showed the veterans that waited on dignitaries to approach them so they could give them a "recap" of that incredible day 65 years ago. They showed everything. It was an amazing special that I must admit, brought me to tears.


So why not today? Why, on the 233rd anniversary of the single most important day in American history, was there no prime time special documenting the various events that led up to us as a nation to be able to call ourselves Americans? Is it because Obama didn't set up a lavish ceremony. Because he didn't give a speech? Or is it because we as Americans have forgotten what it means to be an American? Because we as American citizens do not value what it truly means to be FREE.


How many of you received text messages today saying "Happy 4th of July"? How many of you responded with the same? I'm willing to bet most of you that are reading this.


Now how many of you received or sent out a text message saying
"Happy Independence Day"? Not too many I'm assuming.


Please don't take this blog that I'm posting as me castigating you. By no means, that is not my intent. The purpose of this open letter to you is to reach out to the millions of Americans out there who spend hundreds (if not thousands) of dollars on fireworks, charcoal and food for a BBQ but don't spend a few minutes to educate your children on the importance of this day. I'm asking your to educate your children on the reasons WHY we celebrate this day. July 4th is not a holiday. Independence Day is. July 4th just happens to be the day it lands on.


Much like Memorial Day, Independence Day is usually rewarded to working Americans with an extra day off. Be it the day before the holiday or the day after. But sadly, also much like Memorial Day, the holiday is celebrated for all the wrong reasons in all of the wrong ways. I enjoy fireworks just as much as the next guy. I like to see all of the different varieties of colors and explosions that come about but for me personally, its not necessary. I don't NEED to spend a bunch of money on something that will last a few seconds or even a few minutes. I can almost hear the "ca-ching" of a cash register with every pop or fizz of each firework I light up. But I do it for my son. Like any child, he is mesmerized by the sparkles and noises that come about as a result of the money that was spent. Although he doesn't think about the money. I do. He thinks about the colors. How high the last firework went up. How much higher the next one went. How from one little shot up in the air, came about a bunch of different explosions that turned into different colors. And then he goes to bed with a smile on his face and memories to last a lifetime. So even if it hurt me to basically watch my money, literally "burn" right before my eyes, it pleases me that little Victor enjoyed the show. And for that, its worth it. Any second I get to spend with him, regardless of what or how much it took to get it, is most definitely worth it.


When we woke up this morning, as I was preparing breakfast, I was explaining to little Victor why Independence Day is such an important holiday. I explained to him (in kid's terms) why we celebrate it, what led up to the Declaration of Independence and why it is so important for him to remember that. I explained to him that on this day we celebrate "Independence" and not a date on a calendar. And I explained to him that to say "Happy 4th of July" is not only inaccurate but also wrong in the way it is expressed. At 7 years old, I wasn't expecting for him to really pay much attention to what I was saying. I also didn't expect for him to fully comprehend everything I was telling him. But if I can at least plant the seed of historical sense, hopefully, with enough examples in the future, and certainly many more "July 4th's" ahead of us, he will begin to take hold of what it is that I'm attempting to convey to him. I'll keep my fingers crossed.


We shot off all of the fireworks we bought and then sat down to enjoy the ones that were being set off all around my neighborhood. It was truly a spectacular show. Somewhere off to the South-East, someone had definitely made an attempt to end the recession all by himself. His fireworks display must have gone off for at least a half hour. Someone on the neighboring apartment complex set off what sounded like an M80. It was so loud, it set of 3 car alarms in my neighborhood, including my own. That wasn't fun. In the pain I had already been in all day, I had to go inside to get my keys to turn off my alarm. Before heading in, one of my neighbors stuck his hand out to little Victor, introduced himself and said to him "Happy 4th of July little man". Little Victor, always very polite and courteous, stuck his hand out as well and responded, "Happy Independence Day Sir". I was so surprised, I almost fell out of my seat. He didn't even look at me as if seeking approval or anything. He just shook his hand and went right back to watching the fireworks. But I definitely let him know that I noticed and was proud of him. I cradled him in my arms, gave him a hug, told him that I was proud of him and that I loved him. He's such a great kid. He constantly surprises me in how smart he really is. Maybe that talk this morning was worth it after all. If he didn't remember everything that I had told him, he certainly remembered one of the key points and maybe one of the most important points of the whole "history lesson".


I will now end this blog from a quote from my neighbor. After little Vic went inside to watch some TV, I began to clean up the spent fireworks containers. My neighbor had stayed out there with me and helped me clean them up. As we were putting everything away, I began to tell him pretty much everything Ive mentioned in this blog. His mom, who had flown down here to visit him, was outside smoking a cigarette. He told her that even though I was Puerto Rican, I was more patriotic than most Americans. The last thing he said before I went inside was...




"Vic, I bet if you would have known that you spent two years in Iraq, so that on July 4th CNN could have a special on Michael Jackson, you would have moonwalked your ass all the way back to the states".


How true that is...